People need a positive outlook on life. But sometimes circumstances throws us for a loop. As in my marriage, my self-esteem was shot way down. I did not always have a positive outlook on things. But now, things have changed for the better for me. I have been on my own ( I filed for a divorce with very little confidence in myself, but knew I had to do it) for four years and I am doing fine. I have a new job and a great boyfriend who treats me better than I previously thought I deserved. But, you know what? I do deserve it and am getting used to it and loving it. I now have a very positive outlook on life.  For me I had to pick myself up dust myself off and enjoy the new life that GOD has given me. Check out http://www.todayslifelessons.com/2008/07/15/positive-thinking.html